It is a hard game – dating. And it is made worse by all the ambiguity that floats about around the whole concept. Especially in today’s time when people are more jaded, commitment-phobic, and scared to open their hearts up. Well, you can’t really blame them, what with heartbreaks being a very big part of our dating life. Besides, so many times it is so hard to read the signals right. Men, can be very ambiguous sometimes, especially towards girls they are attracted to. It takes courage to come out and say that you are interested and want to be with someone. In all of this, maybe we need to be more careful at reading the signs and make sure we don’t get them wrong.

Here are some sure shot signs to know that a guy is keen on you.

When you are talking to them, they want to know about you

Most guys go on and on about themselves and don’t even care to get to know about the person opposite them. In all honesty, that’s a huge turn off. But a guy who is keen on you would want to know your thoughts, your feelings about things. He would want to get to know you and your life. It’s as simple as him trying to get to know where this can go.

He reaches out, takes initiative to talk and meet

This is clearly a sign that the person wants to spend more time with you and speaking to you. That is a major sign that they are willing to devote more time of their life with you in it. You are not the only one in this, if the guy is also making the efforts he’s clearly in it too.

He makes you a part of his life and plans

If he shares with you his day stories and what happened all throughout, his short term goals, and the long term ones then he sure seems like someone who wants you to know where he’s coming from and going. And if he is actively making efforts to include you in his life and be a part of yours, that’s a good sign.